When God Says "Not Yet": Finding Purpose in the Waiting

O Lord GOD, thou hast begun to show thy servant thy greatness, and thy mighty hand: for what God is there in heaven or in earth, that can do according to thy works, and according to thy might?Deuteronomy 3:24
Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am; that they may behold my glory, which thou hast given me: for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world.John 17:24
Dr. Ernst Diehl

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Dr. Ernst Diehl

Summary: Have you ever felt caught in a "holding pattern," yearning for purpose that seems consistently out of reach? I've wrestled with that feeling, but I've learned God's "no" or "not yet" is a holy redirection, preparing us for a far grander fulfillment. If you're in a season of unfulfilled longing, please be patient a bit longer and trust His perfect timing. His sovereign "no" is an invitation to embrace holy dissatisfaction, knowing He's orchestrating a far greater "yes" to draw you into intimate communion and eternal joy.

Have you ever felt caught in a "holding pattern," yearning for purpose or a specific dream, yet finding it consistently out of reach? For months, even years, I wrestled with that very feeling. Life was good, with ample free time, but a profound sense of missing purpose gnawed at me. I didn't want to simply invent a "good cause" and throw myself into it; instinctively, I knew God had a specific design. But why the prolonged wait? Why would God delight in such an unfulfilled season?

Perhaps you can relate to Moses. He stood on the plains of Moab, gaze fixed on the Promised Land—a land he had faithfully led his people towards, yet was forbidden to enter. Imagine his earnest plea, a righteous desire denied. This wasn't a rejection of Moses, but a profound divine "no" that served a greater purpose. His exclusion underscored the need for a perfect mediator, someone who could truly usher humanity into God's full inheritance.

Moses' story teaches us that God's "no" or "not yet" is often a holy redirection. His specific, earthly desire was withheld, not to punish, but to prepare him—and us—for an infinitely grander fulfillment. Millennia later, at the Transfiguration, Moses *did* enter that land, not by his own strength, but by grace, conversing with Jesus about His "departure"—His ultimate Exodus for us. Crucially, Moses beheld Jesus' glory, fulfilling his denied petition in an infinitely greater, eternal way.

Just as God had a redemptive arc for Moses' longing, He has one for ours. My own "holding pattern" broke through miraculously, at God's perfect timing, when He energized me with a new purpose—to multiply His words using technology only recently available. Dear reader, if you're in a season of unfulfilled longing, please **be patient a bit longer**. Trust God’s timing. His sovereign "no" is never a sign of abandonment, but an invitation to embrace holy dissatisfaction, knowing He's orchestrating a far greater "yes." Rest in the assurance that His ultimate plan is to draw you into intimate communion and reveal His glory, transforming every earthly disappointment into a divine signpost toward eternal joy.