Bleeding and hunched over

Lucy was born in the gospel, her mother too, an only child, from a young age she stood out in the church and everyone loved her. For many years he could not see his father because his mother prevented him, she abandoned him while she was 3 months pregnant with Lucy. He was not a Christian, but she had evidently loved him like that believing that one day she could make him change.

Abuse, humiliation, prohibitions; her father suffered everything until Lucy was able to make decisions and went looking for him discovering that he loved her. They decided to move and in the new church she met a young man with whom she fell in love with her mother's approval. They married, but soon after the young man began to change. He no longer wanted to go to church, he did not care to have communion with his Savior and he began to mistreat her.

They had their first child, the mistreatment continued until it reached the beatings. Lucy left the house fleeing the violence and took refuge in her father's house, who protected her until she decided to return home. This is how the second and third children arrived and with them the physical and psychological abuse and harassment increased and finally, Lucy decided that no more and asked her husband to leave the house, she proposed the separation and he did so. .

A few days ago the news came: Lucy was stabbed to death by her husband in front of their two older children when he was taking them to school. Her husband and father of her children, after this he hanged himself. Result: 3 orphaned children, 2 lives cut short. Lucy's mother had to be hospitalized as she could not bear the test. Lucy's father picked up his grandchildren. Lives thrown away with little chance of recovery.

Women, loved ones of the Lord, princesses of the Kingdom, precious jewels for God, what are you doing with your lives?

How much time does a Christian woman spend today praying for the man she believes God has reserved for her?

How long does it take to get to know him in depth?

How much do we allow ourselves to be carried away by impulses and how much by the spirit?

If a woman's knees wear out for us to pray putting the man she believes will be her husband before the throne of grace and asking the Father to show her if he is the one for her, what she will spend is her life.

Do you think this story is not real? Wrong! They have only changed the names for discretion, but I was the age of my son and it hurts a lot in the heart to know that there are many Lucy in the world, some, who did not have a father figure as a model because the model was twisted and they incredibly repeat the pattern . Others, like Lucy, had no model, not even twisted because her mother deprived her of it.

It does not even cross our minds to compare the man who is going to marry us to Jesus! The day we see the model of Christ in the man who will sleep by our side and lead us by the hand for the rest of our lives, these things will stop happening. Then we will be healed, loved, exorcised from any of the demons that haunt us since our childhood. Because a man like Christ will protect and love us to the point of giving his life for us, he will treat us like a delicate flower because it is written: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself to himself. Himself for her ”(Ephesians 5.25) and“ He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but sustains and cares for it, just as Christ does the church ”(Ephesians 5: 28-29).

Poor women who do not know their Savior, but infinitely more unhappy those who know him seek "strange fire." They really play with fire, because they are not innocent, they are transgressors. Uneven yokes never bless a home.

If you are on time meditate on the word, if your time has passed, pray for those who come later, there are many bleeding and bent women in the world and only Jesus can heal them.